The Power of a Face: Emotions, Expression, and Christian Compassion

A friend recently confessed that she struggles with playing poker because she doesn’t have a “poker face.” According to one definition, a poker face is "an impassive expression that hides one's true feelings." In order to be successful at poker, one must conceal their thoughts and emotions.

But in everyday life, most of us aren’t that skilled at hiding our feelings. Our facial expressions often reveal what’s going on inside us—whether it’s frustration, joy, stress, or sorrow. We wear our hearts on our faces, whether we intend to or not.

The Christian Walk and the Expressions We Wear

As Christians striving to live as Jesus calls us to, it's often natural for our faces to reflect the peace and joy we carry within. However, when we are struggling, in sin, or out of alignment with God’s will, that can show too. Our sadness, pain, and grief tend to surface visually, often without a word spoken.

Proverbs 15:13 reminds us:
"A happy heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit."

Our outer expression often mirrors the state of our inner being. This truth should encourage us to be more aware—not only of ourselves, but of others as well.

Reading Faces with the Help of the Holy Spirit

I’ve realized that I need to be prayerful and discerning when observing the faces of those around me. I ask the Holy Spirit to help me recognize when someone is silently suffering or joyfully thriving.

If I encounter someone whose face is marked with sorrow or pain, I want to be gentle in my words and actions. Conversely, if someone is full of joy, I want to celebrate with them—not bring them down with careless words. As a follower of Christ, I’m called to be sensitive and intentional—offering love, empathy, and grace.

Called to Compassion and Presence

Romans 12:13–15 encourages us:

"Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality. Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn."

This is more than advice—it’s a call to action. We are invited to step into people’s lives not as bystanders but as ministering friends. Whether through a smile, a kind word, or simply being present, our awareness can open the door to meaningful, Spirit-led connections.